For you… FIDATO!

“Fidato”… It means a person you trust the most. It means someone with whom you can be yourself, someone who knows every little secret of yours, someone who can make you feel better every single time you’re low!

Lucky are those who have a Fidato in their lives… and I am one of them! 

Sarthak Dubey, Oriental, Mechanical Engineering… a typical Bhopali Brahmin lad!

Me on the other hand, Oriental, Electronics and Communication Engineering… a typical Pataniya Kayastha lass!

Walking on two different roads with different groups of people, its strange how our paths crossed … Ok now I won’t go into the details of how we became friends and all… but yeah it was meant to be! 

And then… there he was, every single time I needed him…

He was there to make me smile every time I cried…

He helped me in making choices every time I was confused…

Countless times he has chosen me over slumber so that I don’t spend the entire night crying…

What is he best at?? Making fun of people whom I’ve dated or hated just to make me feel better… :D :D

I love him for that!

But he’s even better at making me feel comfortable. Not even once he has let that creepy… “More than friends” waali feeling come between us. And I’m so thankful to him for that!

I don’t know what he does to me but at times I feel he’s like a pied piper when it comes to giving suggestions. I follow every word he says blindly! Gosshh Sarthak Dubey!!!!!!!!!!!

When I’m with him, I can never manipulate anything coz he knows better what’s going inside my li’l head :P

Through this post I want to tell u that these three and a half years of my life would have been tougher if u wouldn’t have been a part of it!

And yeah wanna let you know that you’re a far better fidato than John was in “Jhootha hi sahi” :D :D

Thank you for everything

May every girl get a FIDATO like you… Amen!

Nail Care at Fingertips!

Admiring her long, clean nails... the girl-next-door was wondering what should be the topic of her next blog post...
NAIL CARE?? Yes, definitely!! People should know how to maintain healthy and beautiful nails.

A little time and effort can go a long way in creating gorgeous nails you'll be proud of. Though nails are the dead cells of our body, still we need to take due care of them to keep them live and attractive.

Basic nail care includes cleaning, trimming and filing your nails. You can easily do these steps at home. There's no set rule for how often you can manicure your nails, but in general it should not be done more than once a week.

1. CLEANING
     Soak nails in a bowl of warm water with a gentle soap/shampoo to loosen the dirt. Then clean the nails using a nail brush or soft plastic bristles. The bristles should be firm enough to remove dirt and debris, but make sure they are not too stiff either.

2. TRIMMING
     Trimming nails can keep them looking clean and at a manageable length. Choose a nail length that's appropriate for you. If you wish to keep long nails, use a pair of sharp nail clippers.

3. FILING
     Filing is an important part of nail care. It smooth-ens and shapes nail tips to make them look beautiful. For best results, use a fine grade wooden nail file. File in one direction and avoid filing down the sides of nails.


STAMPING NAIL ART:

Stamping Nail Art lets you put designs by stamping pre-designed images on your nails. Apply or change designs any time you want... do it yourself in just minutes at home, at a friend's house or anywhere you desire. Follow these instructions to do your fingernail art stamping:

• Choose a base coat color. Paint your nails and wailt until the coat dries.
• Apply a different color nail polish to your disc or image plate or straight to the stamper. Your kit will probably come with colors you can choose from. Scrape excess paint off if using a disc and press the stamper firmly onto the disc.
• Press the stamper onto your nails, transferring the design to your nails.
• Put a clear coat of nail polish that comes with your kit to prevent your design from smearing.

With Stamping Nail Art you can create perfect and classy nail designs spending very little time and money, just like a professional nail artist... or even better ;)

14 Useless Tid Bits Of Info About Me!

1.       I love the word awesome… even if the likeness is not that strong, I’ll still describe it as…”u know what, it was just AWESOME!!”

2.       I talk 2 my mom about 4 times a day… since the day I’ve left home, there hasn’t been a single day I haven’t talked 2 her…sharing even the silliest of the things! Love you mummy!

3.       Whenever I do something… I have 101 reasons 2 prove myself right!

4.       I may shout at the top of my voice if I get over excited about something… so think twice before hanging out with me! :P

5.       If you tickle me… then I’m not responsible for your injuries!

6.    My close ones call me “overacting ki dukaan”…  Jus pat on my shoulders & I’ll give u the reaction of a bone getting fractured….. ahhhh mummmmaaaaaaaa!

        

7.       Waiting for someone pisses me off a lot…!

8.       I keep on wondering why God made “lizards”… the world would have been definitely a better place without these creepy creatures! Eewww!!

9.       Can’t live a day without talking to my best friend… totally addicted to that moron… & fortunately, vice versa!!!

10.   Too obsessed with anything and everything related to marriages… from wedding dresses to wedding songs… from the mehendi to the shehnai…!!!!!!!!

11.   I cry over the smallest things… freaking people around me (specially my roomie)… And the very next morning I’m like… “Why you guys so serious???”

12.   I love it when someone says, “u seem to have put on a li’l weight”… My reaction to it…”Seriously??? Awww” 

13.   I swear to myself, every time I go out to buy something, that I won’t even look at pink stuffs… No points for guessing it… yeah I end up buying PINK… why God why??????????? 

14.   My life is nuts… & I just love it that way!

Oouch... its one sided!!!

Oouch… did u say “One Sided”?? It hurts… It definitely does!

It is one of the worst thing that can happen to anyone. Nothing can be more painful than falling in love with someone who can never be yours. People say love is wonderful. All I wonder is how can something so damn wonderful in essence be such a torture when it comes to “Unrequited love”!!

So what next? Do you want to keep on crying for that person who does not even notice your tears? No way! Keep these few tips in mind and I assure you… U’ll start enjoying your love rather than crying over it! 

1.     Don’t force yourself to hate them: If you’re thinking that the only way to get over your feelings is to start hating him/her, then let me tell you, you are only making matters worse for yourself as you’re eventually thinking of that person even more! 

2.    Don’t force them to love you: You simply cannot make anyone fall for you. Everyone have their choices just as you do. For once, think from their perspective, you might not be the one he/she is looking for! You just gotta deal with this truth and it will definitely hurt less.

3.    Keep yourself busy: Come on guys, there’s a lot of important work to do than sitting back and thinking about the one who doesn’t give a damn to you and your feelings. Dedicate your time to your work, your studies, your hobbies! Go get a life!!

4.    Don’t seclude yourself from your dear ones: Try to spend more time with your family and friends. I know you must have been ignoring them, be it unintentionally, for that one person. Don’t do that. Being with them will help you keep your mind off him/her.

5.    Acceptance: This is the biggest step… to realize this was never real, to realize this person was never meant to be yours, to realize you have got no reason to love him/her. I know its difficult but atleast its way better than continue living in a fantasy world… isn’t it?

6.    Time heals all pain: Someday… maybe not today or not tomorrow…but someday… the scars will fade away with time. Time will fill the gap. Life is short and there is no point waiting for someone you can’t have. Instead find someone special who completes you.

Before applying the above tips, always remember no tips can make your life better unless you want it to be better. 

Fact: This will make you feel good… The feeling of not being loved by the person you love, affects 98% of all people during their lifetimes!

So stop having such thoughts in your mind like, “Why me?” or even more dramatic ones like, “Am I  not worth of his/her love” and blah blah! If you’re having such thoughts then let me tell you… YOU’RE SPECIAL AND YOU’LL ALWAYS BE! J

The End

I knew it was meant to end... I knew I couldn't have you for eternity... I knew you would go away someday!

You say you didn't want to change for me... even I never wanted that!

All I ever wanted was to be loved by you...!!!!

And that couldn't happen!

I tried to continue our friendship and suppress my feelings...

Even that couldn't happen!

I tried to part ways and forget you...

Well the "forget you" part couldn't happen and can never happen!

So here we are... parting our ways!

Don't take me wrong... but that's the only choice I have!

Someone has truly said, "TO HAVE SOMETHING HALFWAY IS HARDER THAN NOT HAVING IT AT ALL"

So I would prefer not having you at all.

You'll always be loved and missed by a crazy lass...

Bye. Take care. :)

I can be tough… I can be strong, but with you it’s not like that at all!!

All right… m writing this… don’t know why… m not even sure if you’ll read this ever… but this is the only thing that can help me feel better!

This post contains stuff that I’ve already told u a thousand times, so I don’t want you to go through the torture again! :P

I know I piss you off at times, don’t I? With my sentimental lines, and my never ending expectations, and my tears that are ever ready to flow from my eyes… & of course when I get angry with you over little things… Gosh! I really wonder how u tolerate my tantrums!! Right now when m pondering over all the crazy things I do… m realizing how much I irritate you! sorry L

You know why have I turned this way? It’s the frustration! It’s the helplessness! How restless do you get when you badly want something knowing very well that it is never gonna be yours? How restless do you get when you want to say something out loud, but you can’t? yes, this is how I feel… do u wanna know why?

Coz I want to say “I love you”, but I can’t!

Coz I want to hug you tight, but I can’t!

Coz I want to shower all the love in this world on you, but I can’t!

Coz I want to care for every little thing of yours, but I can’t!

Coz I want to make you only mine, but I can’t!

Coz I want to dedicate every romantic song to you, but I can’t!

Coz I want to break all bindings with you, but I can’t!

Coz I want to explore the world with you, but I can’t!

Coz I want to cross all limits with you, but I can’t! L

I wasn’t like this before… I hated telling someone how I felt. I wanted people to understand themselves what I wanted, and those who couldn’t understand, never made to the list of my dear ones! And now… just look at my life, revolving around someone who… ! Forget it! And here I am, opening my heart out, yelling at you on the top of my voice, and still you fail to understand! What have I done to myself! I hate myself! I regret being madly in love with you! I hope things would be fine once we part ways after college.

But sometimes I wish… I really wish… you were deeply in love with me! I wish you craved for me just like I do! I wish I was the one you would see, every time you closed your eyes just like I see you! I wish you could think of me every time you heard a romantic song or watched a romantic movie! Why cant this be true? Am I asking for too much? I guess I am! But I am not the only one to be blamed… this world makes me believe that this can happen, stories like ours have happened… and they’ve made it!

This is how my feelings never give up on you after getting trampled umpteen times!

 I don’t know if I’ll ever get my answers, I don’t know even I should search for them or not! I don’t know when I’ll end this fucking post…. and end up everything else too! 

coz it's time...

its been a long time i've posted on "My Fairyland"!

coz i think its time...

its time to get out of my fairyland...

its time to face the real world...

its time to stop believing in fairytales and happy endings...

its time to realise that true love exists only in the twilight saga & mills and boon!

i guess this phase comes in the life of every girl next door... sooner or later... some matured ones discover this much before the ones who end up getting hurt by not learning from their mistakes! Fortunately or unfortunately... I am among the latter ones!

so now onwards... no more posts regarding relationships, love, friendship and all...

there are far more serious issues that need our attention!

so readers, the girl next door needs your wishes...! all set to prove herself to the world! Amen!

KEEP BLOGGIN'!! KEEP ROCKIN'!!